Hi Em,
I have wondered about my 4 year old's hearing quite a few times, as he seemed to be never be able to hear me when I was talking to him. It would take me several attempts to get his attention and he would often talk at maximum volume as well.. it seems that this is just typical 4 year old behaviour as he had a hearing test yesterday and guess what - perfect hearing....lol!!
Some of what you are describing sounds to me like typical behaviour of a child of that age... They get absorbed in what they are doing, so might take ages to respond to a parent calling for them, or just get so excited about something that they have to tell it *really* loud.... Having said that, trust your instincts! If you have *any* doubts, contact your local - ... not sure what you have where you are. In SA, we have Child and Youth Health. You know the place where you get baby checks done, and vaccinations (if your child is getting them)....?? Ring them, and you can probably arrange a free hearing test. In SA they check all children at 4 yrs and 3 mths (with parents consent, of course) so that hopefully children don't slip through the cracks before they get to school.
I think your own test might be helpful and give you peace of mind, but some children have hearing problems in particular frequency ranges - rather than all, so I still think it would be worth getting a proper test done. Also, apparently another classic symptom of hearing problems is language development. The nurse we saw yesterday didn't think DS had hearing problems from the outset of the session cause he speaks clearly and doens't have any difficulty with pronunication of sounds (well, there are ones that are developmentally normal, and ones that aren't. DS still says 'lellow' for 'yellow' but she said for his age group, that wasn't unusual, so not a sign of any problems.)
Hope you find out soon for sure, to put your mind at rest.
