ive wondered this myself, just in musings
i know that very definitely it was nipple stimulation that got things happening for my sis last year with her first birth. after 16 hrs of farting around and nothing much happening, it got her contractions really going and things moving. lol

its quite a funny story really - my mum suggesting to her Son IL that he 'get busy' with her daughters boobs! poor nik couldnt bear to look at lells boobs for a month afterwards! but she said that it really was what made the difference, and then if she felt things slowing down a bit, nik had to do his bit to help, and things stayed on track.
as the result of sharing that story with a friend, this also helped her friend to go into labour as well.
personally, thinking about it and remembering my state of mind and presence when i was labouring with DD, i dont think that i could handle bfeeding. but i would definitely use it or other stimulation early on if things needed a push along.
i LOVE your avatar mummamia, it is beautiful
