Oh gosh, lucas&bean, your story is heartbreaking! I'm glad you are getting support now, and I really hope you can find some healing through having loving people in your life. And what kind of nurse calls you a bad parent for breastfeeding at 6 months! Just crazy. Thankyou for sharing your story, that is exactly why I want to be a doula.
Thanks hanabi and Jasper, I'm feeling very positive about Ipswich now! My client was a little worried, she wanted a home birth but it wasn't possible this time, so hopefully this will provide her with a really wonderful, natural experience.
Thanks kadownie. I quietly reccommended that she give the private hospital and the obstetrician the flick, but she isn't an Australian citizen, so it is really very difficult without Medicare coverage. She is buying into this culture of "needing" a good doctor, also; concerning because her doctor is very opposed to her having a doula. My concern with the Mater private is that they are making it difficult for her to have a tour of the hospital because she has decided not to go to their antenatal classes (on the advice of a wonderful mother at her yoga class

), so it is difficult to get much information about the hospital. But definately, I will be absolutely encouraging her to stay in the comfort of her home until she is well and truly on the way to meeting this baby!